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When I got to Pathfinders, I did not know what to expect. I had been to two rehabs in years past where the target client as LGBTQ, so I was a little timid and hesitant, but my spirit called me to Pathfinders, nonetheless. I was pleased to discover that the staff was very welcoming, open-minded and made me feel like I was part of their family/brotherhood. My experience there was different from the past treatment programs. The staff really took the time to not only show me sympathy but were very empathetic and understanding when it came to sensitive matters and when it came to my interests and my program. They pointed me in the right direction whenever I felt lost and lifted me up whenever I felt low. They were very open and receptive whenever I needed to express my feelings and they allowed me to process growing pains in a safe environment. Anytime I needed a shoulder to cry on…and there were plenty, someone was there to help me through it. I thank my spirit guides every day for leading me to Pathfinders. If it were not for the staff and the brotherhood that they provide, I don’t think I’d be in the same state of mind. Anytime that I feel lost or alone, I know that I can call them and be greeted with love on the other end. Anytime I miss them, I know that I can stop by and be greeted with open arms. In my many years of feeling fearful of the unknown, I now know that it does not matter that I’m gay; I am considered a brother among brothers at Pathfinders and a brother among brothers in recovery. Thank you, Pathfinders, for showing me another way. Santi G. 

I would like to express my gratitude and appreciation to Pathfinders and the amazing staff that makes it all possible. Pathfinders were there for me when I had no one else to turn to and in serious trouble. They provided me with not only a safe space and roof over my head but a healthy environment to get away from my old friends and my old lifestyle. I had knowledgeable people to talk to and down-to-earth counselors to give me great advice and make me feel like I was part of a family. As much as I tried, I could not break my old patterns on my own, but this was something different. Honestly, I was a little bit apprehensive at first and had a hard time admitting I was an alcoholic and a drug addict, and to sum it up.. helpless. I was introduced to the 12 steps and a sponsor who helped me understand and navigate these steps. I quickly adopted a new routine consisting of structure and punctuality. Not being a morning person, it was quite a change. I was waking up before the sunrise and doing my chores which was something I could never accomplish on my own. During our group sessions, we would plan our days from waking up to the time we went to sleep. This helped me tremendously. I was given just enough time and freedom to slowly readjust to normal life and before I knew it, I had a job and my family wanted me in their lives. Next thing I knew covid 19 hit the world like a ton of bricks. I lost my job, and the world was in chaos. People I knew who previously had their lives together were now alcoholically drinking and acting like the world was coming to an end. Thankfully, I had the tools I learned at Pathfinders and the people around me to keep me on the right track. During all of this, I was dealing with a serious court case. The pathfinder’s staff made sure to get my progress reports to the right people and always reassured me I was in good hands. It was not easy but I knew I had no other choice. I had to stay sober, and I could not let myself or anyone else down. I felt nothing but love and encouragement from the staff and my fellow pathfinders. Once completing the Pathfinder program, I easily transitioned to their onsite sober living facility. I recommend this program and the staff to anyone who wants to get sober and stay sober. Pathfinders are the real deal.